面对孩子，请用你的真心！

一提起儿童教育，很多人都认为孩子嘛， 就是随便哄两句就可以了。其实不然，英语外教认为孩子的感觉是最灵敏也是最准确的。而儿童的心灵也是最敏感最脆弱的。 作为一个儿童老师， 当你面对你的孩子，一定要用的真心， 在你考虑你所有的教学方法之前最先考虑到的应该是你的心， 你要在你的心里真正的爱这些孩子， 而不只是把他们当成泛泛的教学对象，这样你就会不自觉的为每一个儿童着想，而你的教学也可以得到全面而完整的发挥。

Mention of children's education, many people think that children, it is easy to coax two sentences on it. In fact, English teachers think the child's feeling is the most sensitive, but also the most accurate. The mind of a child is also the most sensitive and vulnerable. As a teacher of children, when you face your child, must use the heart, when you consider all of your teaching methods should be considered first before your heart, in your heart you really love these kids, not just use them as a general teaching object, so you can unconsciously, for the sake of every child, and you can also get a comprehensive and complete teaching play.

曾今，英语外教有过一个上课特别不自信的孩子，这个孩子课堂上一直都不敢举手回答问题。孩子的父母很为孩子的情况担忧。根据我的幼儿教育的教学经验，我发现，孩子的对感情的敏感度是很高的， 甜言蜜语可能能哄得了成人，但是哄不了孩子， 他们有时候甚至不能理解一些话的意思。 但是他们对真心的嗅觉特别灵敏，如果老师真的喜欢他，肯定他，孩子就会很灵敏的感知到并且很快就能变的快乐，自信，勇敢，学习效率和学习热情也有很大提高， 有些孩子甚至会从班里很不活跃很安静胆小的学生迅速变成班级里的活跃分子。

Once, the English teacher had a class, especially the children who were not confident. The boy never dared raise his hand to answer questions in class. The children's parents are worried about their children. According to the children's education of my teaching experience, I found that the children's emotional sensitivity is very high, sweet may coax adult, but can't coax children, sometimes they even can not understand the meaning of some words. But they really have an excellent sense of smell, if the teacher really love him, he sure, children will be very sensitive to the perception and will soon be able to be happy, confident, brave, learning efficiency and learning enthusiasm has greatly improved, some children even from the class is not active quiet timid students quickly become active in the class.

所以课堂上英语外教老师不失时机的对这个孩子进行鼓励和肯定，比如给她肯定而欣赏的眼神，让她回答一些相对简单一些的问题然后着力表扬，甚至让全班同学为她鼓掌，另外我发现这个孩子虽然相对安静但是她的作业写的特别认真，另外我在家长那里了解到这个孩子的家庭作业能写三个小时，而且从作业本身来看，无论是字体还是正确率都是特别优秀的，于是我特别在课堂上当作优秀作业的典范表扬了这个孩子的作业完成情况和认真程度，并要求大家都向她学习。 这样在两节课后这个孩子已经可以像别的孩子一样边举手边叫喊着要求我给她机会回答问题了。而且这个孩子的父母也反应孩子在日常生活中也变的开朗自信了很多。

So the class teacher for the child to seize the opportune moment to give encouragement and affirmation, for example, she must appreciate the eyes, let her answer some relatively simple problems and then to praise, even let classmates applaud her, I also found the boy although relatively quiet but her homework very seriously, and I where parents understand the child's homework to write three hours, and from the job itself, whether it is the font and the correct rate is particularly good, so I especially model in the classroom as a good job praised the children's homework and serious degree, and asked everyone to learn from her. Thus, after two lessons, the child was able to yell at me, like any other child, and ask me to give her a chance to answer the question. What's more, the child's parents also responded to the fact that children are becoming more outgoing and confident in their daily lives.

通过这个学生的前后转变，英语外教老师了解到， 儿童的教学不仅需要老师有丰富的教学的经验和技巧， 更需要有一颗爱孩子的心。当你面对一个孩子，你心里要想到这个孩子不仅是你的教学对象，更是一个需要你帮助，需要你培养，需要你全心爱护的脆弱的需要成长的个体。当你想到这些你就会非常细腻非常全面的从教学的各个方面为你的学生着想，从来可以制定出合适孩子的教学方案。

Through the transformation of the students, English teachers understand that children's teaching not only requires teachers to have a wealth of teaching experience and skills, but also needs a heart to love children. When you face a child, you have the heart to think of this child, not only your teaching object, but also a need for your help, you need to cultivate, you need to take care of the fragile, the need to grow individuals. When you think about it, you will be very delicate, very comprehensive, from the various aspects of teaching for your students, and can always develop a suitable teaching program for children.

另外， 从心理学角度讲，与儿童交流的最有效的途径也是感情的交流。儿童只有真正接收到对方真心喜欢和肯定他的信号才会信任对方愿意与之交流以至按照对方的指引做事。

Moreover, from a psychological point of view, the most effective way to communicate with children is also emotional communication. Children can only trust each other if they really receive the signals they really like and affirm, and are willing to communicate with each other so that they can act according to the directions of the other person.

所以，英语外教呼吁各位参与儿童教育的老师， 面对孩子，请用你的真心！

Therefore, the English teacher called on you to participate in children's education teacher, in the face of children, please use your heart!