要教育出优秀的孩子，首先要学会建立优秀的家庭环境
今天是第25个国际家庭日。你听说过国际家庭日吗？
Today is the twenty-fifth international family day. Have you ever heard of international family day?
国际家庭日是联合国为提高各国政府和公众对于家庭问题的认识，促进家庭的和睦、幸福和进步而设立的节日。
International family day is a festival established by the United Nations to raise awareness of family issues and promote family harmony, happiness and progress.
家庭是社会的“基本细胞”。对孩子而言，家庭就是他生活的广阔天地。俞敏洪曾说：“一个人在18岁之前的成长过程中，家庭教育的影响占比超过60%，学校教育占30%，还有10%的影响来自社会教育。而现实中，很多家长完全不知道该怎么教育孩子。”
The family is the "basic cell" of society. For children, family is the vast world of his life. Yu Minhong once said: "in the process of the growth of a person before the age of 18, the impact of family education is more than 60%, school education accounts for 30%, and the influence of 10% comes from social education. In reality, many parents do not know how to educate their children at all.
想要教育出优秀的孩子，外教建议先要给孩子建立一个良好的家庭生活环境。比如可以试着这样：
If you want to educate outstanding children, foreign teachers suggest that we should first establish a good family living environment for children. For example, try this:
给孩子成长的空间
The space for children to grow
孩子需要自由成长的空间。如果家长常帮孩子做决定，会导致孩子没有选择，没有思考。孩子没有创新思维，就不会有太多尝试，即使学到知识也很难举一反三。
Children need space for free growth. If parents often help their children to make decisions, children will have no choice but to think. If children do not have innovative thinking, they will not have too many attempts, even if they learn knowledge, it is very difficult to draw inferences about it.
培养好习惯
Cultivate good habits
人的行为在一段时间或一些重复的经历后，就形成了习惯。一个好习惯，就是一笔能让孩子享受一生的财富。所以，家长要留心细节，注意引导孩子，纠正孩子的坏习惯。
Human behavior is formed after a period of time or repeated experiences. A good habit is a wealth that allows a child to enjoy his life. Therefore, parents should pay attention to details, pay attention to guide children, correct children's bad habits.
对孩子进行积极期望
Make positive expectations for children
在人的心里，家人、朋友是支持力量的核心，家人、朋友的期望也更有塑造力。在遇到挫折的时候，无论是孩子，还是成人，对这种力量都非诚期待。
In the heart of a man, family and friends are the core of support, and the expectations of family and friends are more powerful. In the face of setbacks, whether children or adults, this kind of power is not sincere expectation.
尊重孩子
Respect for children
尊重孩子，把他看作一个独立的人，尊重他的选择、朋友等等，合理引导他会得到更好的成长。
Respect children, regard him as an independent person, respect his choice, friends and so on, and guide him to grow better.
家庭和父母对孩子的影响是非常重要的。一个孩子在外面表现不好，受批评时会有人说“家教不好”。由此可见，身为父母一定要以身作则，给孩子树立一个良好的榜样，学做一个有智慧的父母。
The influence of family and parents on children is very important. When a child is not performing well outside, when criticized, someone will say "bad family education". Thus, as a parent, we must set an example and set a good example for our children to learn to be a wise parent.
